Tuesday, August 04, 2020

Grant's 10th Birthday

 Seriously, how is he TEN?!

FB Post--August 4th.Our youngest is in double digits today! Grant was up bright and early this morning and started his birthday by snuggling with his mother 🥰 and then reading in his hammock. Sure do love this kid!

We celebrated with a BBQ feast with family at the pool on the Sunday before his birthday. On his actual birthday (a Tuesday) we invited his friend Ethan (and his mom and brothers) over to swim in the afternoon. That was what he wanted, so that's what we did! 



































Monday, August 03, 2020

New Desk

 Part of Grant's birthday present was a new desk for his room. He needed a space for school work since online learning was looking more and more like the plan for the fall. I filled all the pin and nail holes and repainted the wall, and then Grant and Greg worked on the desk from IKEA together. 







Monday, July 27, 2020

Rockaway Beach

 The Arnold beach trip started June 20th, which was only two weeks after Greg's surgery. We decided to send the kids with Grandma on Wednesday, the 22nd (I met her in Hillboro to make the transfer), and then Greg and I came later on Friday night, just for two nights. They had a great time, and Greg was happy to get to spend some time at the beach, too, even though he was more limited in what he could do. The house they rented this year was right on the beach, which was so nice! The kids could just go out and play in the sand or take a walk whenever they wanted. 






















Monday, July 20, 2020

Two Weeks Post-Op

 July 20--We had some time to waste between doctor appointments today and stared up at the clear blue sky while relaxing on a blanket in the shade, a light breeze blowing through the trees above us. Not a bad way to spend a Monday! It’s been exactly two weeks since Greg’s colon cancer surgery, almost four weeks since we found out he had a tumor. He’s doing really well! He’s eating normal foods, starting to regain strength (hasn’t walked 2 miles again since that one day, but he’ll get there soon!), and is just feeling so much better. After talking with his oncologist, we have decided to have Greg do 6 months of chemo, starting in mid-August. He should be able to work throughout, in spite of side effects, as it’s a fairly moderate regimen. We are happy to have a plan, and we both feel good about this decision.

God is good, and He is faithful. Those things would still be true if Greg’s cancer had spread to lymph nodes and if surgery had not been as successful. But we are so very grateful and thankful for this answer to prayer. Cancer is scary. This last month + has been so hard. We’ve seen God working in numerous ways, though. He truly has been our refuge and strength, our ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). I have so many thoughts and words swirling through my head, but I want to say thank you for all the support you’ve shown Greg and our family, for all the prayers, cards, meals, messages. This has been a crazy, terrible, difficult, and overwhelming experience, but we’ve seen so much good—kindness, thoughtfulness, generosity, patience, love—from so many in our community. Thanks for walking alongside us through this. ❤️

Friday, July 17, 2020

Good news


 FB Post July 13--The surgeon called with pathology results. It’s good news!! They were able to collect 56 lymph nodes (17 or 18 is considered a good sampling), and ZERO had cancer in them. Praising God and crying in relief. The cancer had gone past the lining of the colon into the tissue surrounding, which puts Greg at a slightly higher risk, but they took all that tissue out and felt they got a good margin. We see the oncologist on Friday to discuss next steps, if any are needed. This is the best result we could have asked for.

Greg is doing well and recovering a little more each day. Today’s news is just a huge relief. He can concentrate on healing now without that big unknown hanging over him. With all the difficult news these days, I’m happy to be able to share something good today! ❤️